We're Back!

As Darrick wrote because of my great ideas I have that are quite often spur of the moment things, when I moved the computer into our reading room/living room I didn't know they Cable link was not strong enough out there. So I was left without Internet and a home phone for 3 days.



So many big things have happened!



1. Micah had his first soccer game on Saturday and he scored 3 goals!



2. After going with Margaret and Loretta to the Hale Koa on Friday and putting 3 car seats in the Jeep I learned that it is too small for 3 kids. They were sitting on top of each other and their seats were up against the doors. So yesterday I traded the Jeep in for a 2006 Dodge Grand Caravan!

I am super happy with it and all the extras it has!

3. We received a big packet in the mail from Buckner this week and the letter said, " We are thankful for your interest in Buckner's ministry! Your Buckner Preliminary Application has been received and it appears you meet Buckner's basic qualifications allowing you to move forward to begin the Home Study evaluation process"!!!!! We are so excited, thank you Lord.

4. We found out that in about 3 weeks my parents will be making their 3rd visit to Hawaii to see us!

In other news Darrick is still in San Diego. Micah's other top front tooth is pretty loose now too! Jacob is becoming quite a good artist and draws me many pictures.

Out of touch for a few days

Hello everyone
Jenn asked me to get online and let everyone know that she would not be able to get online until Wednesday. She moved the computer out of the back room and into the reading room but the cable connection in there is weak and the cable company can't send a tech until Wednesday. She will probably write then.
Darrick

Goodbye tooth #3!

Tonight while we were eating dinner Micah bit into his cheeseburger and said it hurt. He opened his mouth a little and I could see his tooth just dangling there. I told him not to chew anymore because I was afraid he would swallow it. I barely touched it and it fell into my hand. I think he looks so cute! At bedtime tonight he put his tooth under his pillow in our special tooth fairy box. He said that he wanted to get money from the tooth fairy but he also wanted to keep his tooth. He started crying because he didn't know what to do. I broke down and told him the truth about the tooth fairy,he didn't seem to mind too much-but he was super excited that he could get money and keep his tooth!

Last weekend of winter break

This is our last weekend of winter break-Tuesday we go back to school. We had about 4 weeks off since we are on a year round school calendar. Everything will pretty much be the same for Micah except that he will start Japanese. We are so use to the schools in California where Spanish is always taught but here where there is a huge Asian culture they teach Japanese. Miss Jackie who took care of Jacob is no longer doing daycare so we asked our friend Jennifer Homesley to watch Jacob for us. It will be super convient because she lives in the house right behind ours. I will still be working, helping out with Math, in the 3rd and 5th grade classes.

Friday night Darrick stood his first duty (24 hours on the ship) on the USS Lake Erie.

I got one of my big ideas that I wanted to redo our entire playroom. So I spent Friday taking everything out of the playroom and into the dining room. There was a lot of small dead cockroaches behind the furniture which was gross. Then Saturday and some of the afternoon on Sunday I went through the toys and cleaned and reorganized and put things back. We made half of the room with a rug, pillows and two bookshelves for all of my children's books and educational games and puzzles. Also the computer is there. Then on the other half is the toy box and the boys toys. I am really happy with how it turned out.

We Love the Dentist

I know that is not what most people say about the dentist but when three out of four people in your family go to he dentist and their are no issues it is easy to love the dentist. Today Jenn and the boys had dentist appointments and no cavities. Jenn said that the boys did a great job and were not scared at all. The boys were happy to get new tooth brushes and tooth paste.

Today was my first day on the USS Lake Erie with the entire crew there. It was a pretty long but good day. We are going through a lot of inspections now to make sure we are ready for deployment soon. Yep, another deployment not even a year later. I guess all I can say is "that's what we do." But I was thinking about people who have a hard time after a week of being away from home. Like when you watch Survivor and they are crying after a week that they miss their family. Good thing they are not in the military! I don't know where that came from but I do think that they need to suck it up sometimes.

Tonight Jenn is filling out paper work for the adoption so please continue to pray for us and the little girl God has planned for us.

Darrick

More Photos

Happy New Year!

Happy 2007 Everyone from the Hays family! We had fun celebrating on New Year's Eve with the neighborhood gang. We had so many fireworks between the neighbors we were ready for a spectacular show. We got to set off quite a few and so did the rest of the people in housing before the security guy came around and said we couldn't do fireworks.

We are excited to see what this year will hold for each one of us and our family. In August Darrick and I will celebrate our 10 year wedding anniversay. We also hope to adopt a daughter this year. As for personal goals Jacob said he would like to ride a bike without training wheels, Micah would like to buy a pirate ship (that is honestly what he said)! Darrick would like to read through the New Testament and memorize one new Bible Verse a month. And we both would like to eat healthier and get back in shape.

New Year's Day we relaxed and then in the evening went to celebrate our friend Nadine's birthday and to meet their 1 month old son-Noahkai. He is so cute and I got lots of time to cuddle him. Micah even asked to feed him his bottle and then rocked him to sleep.

Goodbye Gold Bullet, Hello Green Lightning

Yesterday afternoon Darrick and I went on a date. The plan was go out for a late lunch and then see an early movie. We had a super yummy dinner. We tried a new place called "Diego's Taco Shop". Darrick had carne asada fries-which he heard he had to try-and I had hard tacos with rice and beans. We will definitly go there again.

We had some time before the movie so we stopped at Cutter car dealership to look at the new Jeep Wrangler Unlimited. It was sweet but a red Compass caught my eye. Let me just say that our gold minivan aka: Gold Bullet has been a great car for us but every couple of months it seems to have something going wrong. The newest is a clicking sound and a leak in the radiator. So we test drove the Compass but knowing we still owe $5700 on the van we didn't think they could work a deal for us but the salesman was willing to try. They came out with: If you put $8000 down your payments will be 844 a month. When we told him there was no way we could do that he wanted to know how close we could to that. We said we couldn't and we told them what we could pay and the guy couldn't believe how low we wanted our payments.

So we were planning on leaving when another guy came in and said he understands our situation since we was former military. He said that they have a nice 2006 Liberty, with 3000 miles, that they could probably work it out with year end deals so it would be closer to the payment we wanted. So we test drove it and loved it but when we got back found out that other people were looking at it before us and they wanted it. So the dealership said they had something else for us and brought out a dark green 2006 Liberty with only 79 miles. They offered to pay off our van and give us a nicer car then the Compass for a much smaller payment-it didn't make sense-but that is how God works.

Scary Night

Hello everyone, Jenn and I are sorry we have not been good about posting. I have been on vacation and we have been busy. As you can see Micah got a new bike. It was not for Christmas it was because he rode his bike to school on Friday morning December 15th and when I picked him up I loaded him in the car and forgot his bike. Well when we remembered it on Tuesday the next week it was gone. Jenn and I felt like we should get him a new one because I forgot it and he needed a larger one anyway and they were 20% off and the exchange. So now he has a full size bike and he loves it and does very well on it.

So what was the scary night about?

Last night, Tuesday night, Jacob was playing at a friends house with Micah and they suddenly came home with Jacob crying and him throwing up on our porch. We took his temperature and it was 102.4 so we gave him Tylenol and a warm bath and that seemed to bring it down some but we kept him on the couch by us so we could watch him. So we were watching TV when Jenn looked at Jacob and said "Darrick Jacob is shaking" so I looked at him and jump up shouting "He's having a seizure!" So we tried to talk to him when he stopped (about 30 seconds, an eternity) and he was really unresponsive so I said we should call 911. Then we got our neighbor Wil to see what he thought and he agreed so we called 911 and they sent an ambulance. They gave him an IV and took him to Tripler Army Medical Center. Then Margaret came over to stay with Micah, who was sleeping and unaware of this, and I drove to Tripler. About two hours after his seizure Jacob finally snapped out of it and became himself again. They did some blood test, urine test and took some x-rays and said that everything was fine and that he had a Fever Seizure. So we were home by midnight and today he had a little fever still but was in pretty good spirits. He doesn't remember much about last night which is probably good so he is not scared. He was such a trooper though and we are so thankful to God that He was taking care of Jacob. So that was our scary night.

There is a lot more we can share about our Holidays. We will be sure to write about them later. Check out the present Elijah gave to Jacob for Christmas. It is on his head in case you didn't figure that out.

Darrick

The Gang at the Pearl City Christmas Parade

Jennifer, Brayden, Deja, Jenn, Margaret, Loretta

Jalen, Jacob, Micah, Tayveon, Tonya

taking pictures: Darrick and Jeremy

Brothers

"It's my brothers fault" and "I didn't do it"

Getting out there with the other crazy people

Today we went out with all the other people in Hawaii and shopped 'til we dropped. Micah played at his friend Jalen's house and Jacob, Darrick and I went out. Our first stop was Costco! We found a few items and crossed some people off our list. Then we stopped at the Waikele Outlets to go to the Children's Place to look for Christmas pajamas. We had great success and found some super cute things for the little ones on our list. Then we stopped into the store next to Children's Place called "Crazy shirts" they were having a 50% of everything sale-it was awesome. Then we we got home we hung up some Christmas lights. Tonight we are babysitting Loretta so her parents could go to a holiday party!

Is that your final answer?

Well, I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news but we are not coming home for Christmas. We just found out and we are pretty bummed. The person on the ship who said the Navy was paying for our tickets for the way home was wrong. When Darrick went to the main office to book our flights, hey looked over his orders and said we are not eligable at the time. But if Darrick wanted to sign up for 2 more additional years of sea time then we could ge the tickets in September-no thanks!

So we are staying here and having our own Christmas in Hawaii again. But we are focusing on the positives like Darrick is home with us and we can have some down time as a family.

Decorating our Tree

She lives on...

This afternoon we spent some time decorating our Christmas Tree. We let the boys put on most of the ornaments so they often end up clumped together but they are so proud of the job they did.

But then when the boys are done, it is my turn. I very carefully lift my angel out of the box and lovingly place her at the top of the tree-where she belongs.

I made this Angel when I was in 2nd grade at Ontario Christian Elementary. I folded a paper like a fan, cut out a circle for her head and drew her face, then I cut out wings and glued her head and wings on. And on her left side are my initials (well the ones I had before I got married) J.G. For many years she reigned on top of the Gutierrez family tree since I was the oldest.

As we got older my brothers use to poke fun of her and say she was ulgy, but I didn't care, I still put her up year after year. One year my brother Dave tried to replace her with a homemade star he had made but it didn't matter I still put her at the top next to his star.

And when Darrick and I got married, I took her with me so she could sit at the top of our tree and she has for the last 9 years. And as I am writing this I can see her sitting at the top of our tree. She may be turning brown and yellow from fading and she has a tear and her head has been taped on but she is beautiful to me. And as Iput her up Jacob asked, "I thought we are suppossed to have a star on top of our tree." And Darrick answered, "Not in this house. We have an Angel that is very special to Mom."

Our Thanksgiving

We hope that everyone had a nice Thanksgiving-we sure did and it was a first for us. It was the first time we had Thanksgiving at the beach! Our friend Sonya invited us to celebrate with her family, who is visiting from West Virginia, and friends. It was nice for me to not have to cook a lot. I had to bring Strawberry Spinach Salad and a dessert-I make Chocolate Toffee Crunch Poke Cake.

It did rain on us but that was ok since we had a cabana. The boys swam in the ocean and played in the sand. It was a relaxing day.

On Friday we started out our morning with a family bike ride. We explored a different part of the peninsula which is by the Navy Seal Base. It was by the water and when we were looking around we saw a huge blowfish and Jacob spotted a ray that we all got to see! It was awesome. After we cleaned up we went to the movies and saw "Flushed Away". It was cute.

Then in the later afternoon we went to the Hale Koa with all our neighbors and Sonya and her family. We swam, had dinner, watched the fireworks and the fire dancers.

Today Darrick has duty so we are just hanging out at home. I am doing some laundry and putting up the Christmas tree, Micah is playing video games with Jalen and Jacob is watching cartoons!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! Micah is wearing the Native American costume he made at school.

We had quite a fright early this morning. Micah woke us up at 2:30 am saying he couldn't breathe. He was wheezing really bad and had very labored breath. He was very scared and crying which made it even worse. Darrick took Micah to the ER at Tripler. Thankfully there was no one else there and they saw Micah right away. They said he was having an asthma attack and gave him a breathing treatment. Micah has never had asthma or any allergies. So we had to follow up with his doctor later this morning. She also confirmed it was asthma and gave us a ton of medicine. We have to see the doctor again in a week. We are not 100% sure if the diagnosis is accurate since it came out of no where so we just ask that you pray that God will reveal the truth to us. We are so worried about Micah. Just in case you don't remember April/May 2006 Micah was evaluated and diagnosed with Panic/Anxiety/Separation disorder. He has been seeing a specialist, taking some medication and with a lot of prayer support has made so much progress no one hardly knows he has it. But about 2 weeks he got the flu and threw up in class which was causing him to have panic/anxiety attacks for the first time at school. We have been working with his teacher and the school counselor and making some progress. So this asthma attack just adds to his worry because he is afraid he is going to have another one and not be able to breathe.

We also got some really really great news today. Since we were not moving to Washington we had decided that it would not work for us to go to California for Christmas. We were really disappointed because all my family is going to be home. Well we found out today that it is written in Darrick's orders that we get to travel to his home area, all 4 of us, for FREE-compliments of the Navy! Praise God! He works in such awesome ways and when we can't see a way, He finds a way! We can't wait to see everyone and eat some yummy California food!

Time to catch up again...

Darrick left on Monday to go out to sea for the week and Dave, Laura and Elijah left bright and early Tuesday morning to fly back to California so our house seemed pretty quiet with just me and the boys.

We had a pretty normal week. Darrick came home Friday and we were all happy to see him-especially the boys. Darrick had promised them that when he got back we could watch the movie "Cars" and then the boys could have a sleepover together. Micah and Jacob decided that they all wanted to sleep in the guestroom and when I peeked at them they were both cuddled up, one on each side, next to Darrick.

Saturday we took it easy. In the morning we went for a family bike ride on the bike path. We were all cruisin' along fine until we got to a little downhill section by the watercress and taro patches. Jacob veered off the path rolled off his bike and crashed at the bottom of a small hill by the taro field. Thankfully he only scratched his chin a little and cried because he said he was scared.

In the afternoon we cleaned out our storage room to get out all of our christmas stuff. We were quite surprised at the amount of gecko poop that was in there. I mean it was so much we had to sweep it out. We also encountered 2 giant cockraoches, yuck!

Darrick had duty today so the boys and I went to church but it was not a normal church service it was Hope Chapel West Oahu's Thanksgiving Luau. It was awesome and everything was FREE! First was church. I helped with the kids. We had a couple hundred kids from Pre-K to 6th grade. We started with a great kids singer named Tisha and then a Christian magician. The kids loved it. We had handed out quite a few tickets to our friends and neighbors but the only ones we saw there was our new neighbors Jeremy, Jennifer and Brayden. After church then the Luau started. We had traditional food: kalua pork, rice, chicken long rice, lomi lomi salmon and poi. They had bouncers for the kids, carnival rides and shave ice. They also had some musical guests: Kapena (http://www.kapena.com/), Keahiwai (http://www.keahiwai.com/) and Nathan Aweau (http://www.nathanaweau.org/). The boys and I relaxed, listened to good music and ate 3 shave ice each!

I better wrap this up, but one last story. As a result of the 3 shave ice Jacob especially had to go to the bathroom a lot. I made sure he went right before we left. One the way home I had to make a stop to sign Micah up to play AYSO soccer for the first time-the season starts in January. So we are in traffic, I'm trying to drive and Jacob blurts out "I have to pee!" "Right now?" I say and he says "It's coming out!" "Quick think" I say to myself. There is no where to pull over and I spot an empty waterbottle-perfect! I tell Micah to try and help him get his pants down while he is still in his seatbelt. I just tell them "Make sure your penis is in the bottle before you pee." We are finally coming to a redlight, I turn around just as Jacob starts peeing and his penis pops out of the bottle and he is just sitting there peeing like an out of control firehose. I am yelling "make it stop!" as it hits me and Micah. Finally it stops because he is out of pee and he just smiles and starts giggling. The lights turns green and we get to the registration place and the first words out of Micah's mouth are "Mom can I use the bottle too?" Life with boys...

Our Day

Today Micah and I went to school this morning and Dave and Laura watched Jacob. Elijah was able to get a good nap before we started our afternoon activities.

We picked up Micah from school and headed straight for the Goodwill to find Dave, Laura and Elijah some Aloha clothes. We found a few other good deals and then got back in the car to head to Wahiawa.

We went to Dole Plantation. We had yummy Dole whips and then rode the Pineapple Express. It was another great day with sun and a nice breeze. After the train ride we went to feed the Koi Fish-which the boys all loved. But all of the sudden Elijah kicked off his sandel and it landed in the pond. We had to get a man to fish it out with a net. It is always an adventure...see what we do tomorrow!

Today was a day off from school because of Election Day so we were able to go and have some fun! After breakfast and a nap for Elijah and Jenn, we made our way over to the Arizona Memorial. Our boat and show was going to be in an hour and a half so we looked around the museum and then had our picnic lunch by the water. It really was a beautiful day with a refreshing breeze.



At the Arizona Memorial





After the Arizona we had an awesome drive to Lanikai, and Elijah caught another little catnap. We all had such a good time. The water was really warm and we all got in and swam together. Dave and I spent some time snorkeling and getting cut on the coral!

Darrick had duty today, so we missed him, but we sure had fun!

Tonight Micah caught a baby gecko in my room so him and Dave took some time holding it before they set it free-in our house! I remember being so scared of geckoes when we first moved here and not being able to sleep because there was one in my room. But now the boys actually catch them outside and set them free in the house because they like them as pets. They are harmless and eat misquitos so it is fine with me!

And our guests are...

Well our newest guests arrived today: Dave (my brother), Laura and Elijah Gutierrez! They had a really good flight and arrived a little early. We greeted them with leis and big hugs and smiles.

From the airport we drove to Pali Lookout. The view was amazing even though it was pretty breezy. And there were a lot of bees. There has always been a signs warning of us bees but in the 2 years we have been here we have never seen a bee. Jacob got stung on his cheek.

While we were enjoying the beautiful view I was telling Laura how Japanese tourist love taking pictures of the boys and children who look "Western". As soon as I got done a group of Japanese students came over and wanted to take pictures with us and they went nuts over Elijah-they were squealing and trying to touch him.

This afternoon we relaxed and had a yummy dinner of BBQ chicken, rice-a-roni and fresh pineapple. Tonight the cousins took a bath together and are having fun getting to know each other again. Elijah likes to watch the boys and see what they are up to. Our adventures continue tomorrow...

Darrick's New Toy

Last week Darrick got a motorcycle. A guy from the ship was moving and couldn't take it with him so Darrick got a really good deal. It is a 2000 Suzuki Katana. He is now going to work on getting his Hawaii motorcycle license so he can ride it!

Smile...you're on Candid Camera

I have now come to the conclusion that I have to be on some kind of hidden camera show...it is the only way to explain how crazy my life has become!

Today started out as a normal day, we got up, had breakfast, got ready for the day and brought Jacob to Miss Jackie's, Micah to his class and then I made my way to the 5th grade classroom. About 45 minutes into Math class my cell phone rang and it was Jackie. I needed to come get Jacob becuase he was throwing up. So I left school, got Jacob, gave him a bath, and got him cozy on the couch with a bucket.

Around 1:00 the phone rings, "Mrs. Hays can you please come get Micah, he is in the Health Room. He just threw up in his classroom" Jacob was napping so Tonya kept an eye on him while I went to get Micah. We got home, I gave him a bath, and got him cozy on the couch with a bucket. They have both thrown up a few more times but hopfully it will pass quickly.

I think the name of the show I must be on is "How much can one person take?" and the theme must be they keep throwing crazy situations at you and see how much you can handle before you crack! But the great thing is that I am doing good and God is giving me the strength I need each day to handle the challenges that lay before me.

This morning the Lake Erie called to request Darrick to be the Chief on their ship. So we are just waiting to see what happens.

Huh?

Well today we had surprising news...the Navy told us that we are NOT moving to Washington. We are still pretty shocked. What it came down to was that the detailers do not want to pay to move us from Hawaii to Washington. So now they are either going to keep Darrick on the Hopper or transfer him to another ship stationed here-the USS Lake Erie.

When we got married the verse we chose as our verse was Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a future and hope". We are just hanging onto that verse right now, when we are not sure if we are coming or going. Even though it seems like the Navy is in charge of our life, it is God who is in charge of ALL including the Navy. We know God has a plan for our family and we will listen when God tells us to go and stay when He tells us to stay. We'll keep you updated!

Images of our Halloween

Happy Halloween from the Hays Family!

Jenn: Tinkerbell, Darrick: Captain Hook, Jacob: Robin, Micah: The Human Torch

Goodie Bags Micah and I made for his class

Well I am back from my Weekend retreat.
On Saturday while I was gone Jenn and the boys went to a Halloween party and a going away party for the Shedd's.
The retreat was a good time of learning what a man of God looks like and what I need to do to be that man. I think something I struggle with is me trying to do good things for God rather than allowing God to do good things through me. Another thing is I sometimes get so mad at people when they do things they shouldn't do. The speaker said to remember they are lost and need Jesus. That will really help me to keep from getting angry.
On Saturday on the retreat we had free time so we played some basketball and went swimming. I did okay on the court but hurt my ankle again so it is pretty swollen tonight.

Today I got home in time to meet Jenn and the boys at Church and hear the message. When we got home we rested and Jenn actually slept. Then we went for a bike ride around the housing area. The weather was so nice today with a nice cool breeze. After our ride Jacob tried riding his bike without the training wheels. He actually did really good but we put the wheels back on because he needs a little more time. He still likes to look around when he rides and when he did that he would fall over.

The past few days I have been down and out with the flu. It hit me early morning Wednesday and of course, how it always goes, Darrick was leaving to go out to sea Wednesday thru Friday. I stayed home from work for 2 days and mostly in bed. But I am finally starting to feel better today and was able to go to work but took it easy.

Today after school was the Lehua Family Fun Fair. So the boys and I went and had a really great time. They had different games and a cake walk and yummy food like shave ice, nachos and hot dogs. Micah and I each won once on the Cake walk and Micah chose cookies and I chose brownies.

Darrick did come back tonight but later than expected so we did not get to spend anytime with him. Mike Ching from Bible Study picked him up soon after he got home and they rode together to HCWO's Men's Retreat. It is Friday-Sunday and even though we haven't seen him in days, I'm so happy that he can go.

Gold Bullet

It was so wonderful today when I started the van this morning and it was so quiet!!! What a blessing! We forgot to mention yesterday what the problem was. It was the tensioner (Don't ask me what or where that is). Darrick had changed the tensioner pulley but not the tensioner. So thanks to the mechanics at the Autoport for fixing our van. By the way the Gold bullet is what we call our van. The boys love Gold Bullet and think it is the fastest and coolest car on the road.

And we all seem to be adjusting to life without Moses. The boys did not mention him this morning before school so I did not either. And they didn't mention him in the afternoon. Only once in the evening they each asked me where he was but there were no tears. That was one of the hardest nights for me as a mom. I knew we were doing the right thing but it broke my heart to hear the boys cry like that. I had to lay in bed with Micah until he finally fell asleep. He kept saying the sadest things like "Will Moses forget me?" "Will they change his name?" "I love Moses"...

Hopefully the worst is over!

Bye Moses

Well today was a bit of a sad day. The family that adopted Moses picked him up. Everything was going good until it came time for the family to take him away, Micah started crying, the hardest cry we have seen from him in a long time. It was hard but we feel it is the best thing for Moses. We took a picture with the family so you could see who adopted him. The little girls were so excited to get Moses, we could tell they will give him plenty of love and attention. Besides the little girls they have another dog at home and a big yard for them to play in.

Also we have a huge praise. We got our van back today and it was nice and quiet. Not only was it quiet but it didn't cost even close to what we thought they would try to charge us and we got a screw taken out of one of the tires and the hole fixed so the van is ready for our next visitors.

Saturday

Well we finally decided that it is time to take the van in. The squealing is so bad, it is embarrassing. So we brought it to the Autoport on the Navy Base so hopefully they can figure out what is going on with it. But in the meantime that left us without a car so we rented a car. It is a Dodge Neon. We are really enjoying driving around in the car, and it is blue, which the boys like.

Then we had to go to Honolulu to pick up the papers that prove Moses is a pure breed Cairin Terrier. And here is another God thing. The Navy housing in Washington does not have fenced in backyards so we decided it would be best to not take Moses but we were not sure what to do. We wanted him to go to a good family, but how would we find one? Well last week Darrick was talking with some people on the ship and they were talking about pets and Darrick just threw it out there that we were looking for a home for Moses and one guy said he wants him. He has 3 kids who want a dog. So next week we will bring Moses to his new family. We are sad but we feel it is for the best.

Yesterday I got my haircut. It was just getting too long and I was starting to get headaches. So I got about 4 inches cut off and layers put back in it and the lady thinned it out. It feels so good.

We also got our first takers who are going to come visit us before we leave. They are coming the second week in November. We are so excited! Who are they? You'll just have to wait to see!

Letting God do His thing...

It never fails to amaze me how God works everything out for us in His time and not our own and also that He has such good things in store for us, better then what we think we want.

Once again, like I wrote before, I had our future all worked out. In the present moment I wanted San Diego so we could be 2 hours away from my family and because it was familiar to me. I wanted to send the boys the City Tree Christian School, where I use to teach when we lived there and I was going to try to get a job there. We knew living there was going to be expensive, but oh well, what could we do. Darrick and I have talked often about someday owning a home near the woods, we both love the outdoors and the forest. Darrick has also talked about wanting to live somewhere cheaper so we will be ok when he retires from the Navy. But those were our quiet desires for the future that we kept tucked away inside our hearts.

And then BAM out of nowhere God reveals His next step for our lives: Washington. God listened to our hearts and gave us what is best for us and not what I thought we needed. And today I had another comfirmation that this is the path God wants us on.

Today I talked to Jackie, who takes care of Jacob while I work, and told her that we are moving. She sat there a little amazed and said that her supervisors implemented some new rules for the providers that imposed on her family, like no home schooling your own children, etc... and she was considering quitting but was unsure what to do with finding another provider for Jacob. I told her we are leaving in December and that is the same time she was thinking of quitting! Can you even believe it? We love Jackie and the only reason we have Jacob there is because she and her family are Christians and that is the type of home we want Jacob in. But God is working it all out. I can't wait to see what He will do next!

Blessed

Tonight I am feeling blessed...not because I have a kitchen filled with dirty dishes but the events of the day.

Jacob woke up with an upset tummy today so he and I stayed home. He is feeling better tonight and his appetite is back.

So since I was home I did some laundry and while I fold clothes my mind wanders and I got an idea. For the past few nights I have been researching schools for Micah in Washington. I found an amazing Christian school that just seemed to have evrything we are looking for, it is called Nothshore Christian Academy. So my idea was that I needed to call them and see if they have any openings for kindergarten starting in January. The woman I talked to was the Admissions Director and she was great and very friendly. And she told me that she just got notice of a kindergarten opening in January! So we took it and she is reserving it for Micah Hays. God is so amazing and has everything so perfectly planned, it is almost hard to wrap your brain around. Here is the link to the school if you want to check it out: http://www.northshorechristianschools.org/

Then this afternoon I got a call from a girl named Linda. She is the sister of my friend Gloria Bracamonte and her and her husband, Josh, just arrived here on island yesterday because they just got stationed here. This is their first move and they were feeling pretty lost. So I went to pick them up to hang out with us.

The neighborhood was having another BBQ since we still had defrosted food left over from Sunday after the earthquake. So I invited Linda and her husband Josh to join us. I know I have said this many times before but I love our neighbors. We are so blessed to have them. We truly have become the dearest of friends and all our kids just act like one big happy family. We had such yummy food and Tonya made a yummy chocolate pudding pie (by the way Tonya, I already ate my piece, so good thing we split it between us).

Darrick is out to sea this week but will be back tomorrow, which is the last thing I feel so blessed about. Monday morning I woke up to find a note from Darrick on the counter in the kitchen. He was just thanking me for supporting him and loving him through all the Navy throws at us and to tell me that he loves me. It really made my day and makes me feel warm when I think about it. I love you too Darrick and would follow you anywhere-but I prefer somewhere close to family and in the USA!

We're okay!

Our life has been on full speed lately and it has been hard for us to find a moment to slow down.

We have a few items of really big news:

1. We survived the earthquake! Darrick had duty Saturday so the boys and I were getting up and waiting for Darrick to come home so we could go to church. And then the earth started shaking! It was strong and the biggest one I have ever felt. The entire island lost power! So everyone started to hang out outside. We borrowed a car to get to church because I was scheduled to Sunday school. There were people there, only a lot less then normal. Darrick was stuck on the ship. When we got home the neighborhood had an impromptu BBQ until about 4 pm when the power came back on. Thanks for the calls we got to make sure we were ok!

2. On Friday Darrick got a call from the higher up people in charge of Navy region west asking him if he would come to the USS Ingraham and be their Chief since they do not have one. Here is a little history. Our time in Hawaii is coming to an end September 2007 so this December 2006 it is time for us to pick our new orders. We were planning on San Diego. About 3 times Darrick mentioned to me "Have you thought about Washington?" "No of course not" I said, "we are going to San Diego!" Darrick couldn't believe it on Friday when they called and requested him in Everett, Washington! We feel really peaceful and sense God's leading but we were not planning on moving so quickly. This has all been verbal agreements so far and we are waiting for the paper orders. Darrick will leave the Hopper December 15, 2006 and report to the Ingraham January 15, 2007. So this holiday season we will be moving again! So if anyone wants to visit who has not, this is your LAST chance! We also found out today that Darrick will be leaving for another CARAT cruise (which he just returned from) around May 2007. So we are busy researching housing and where we can send Micah for school and learn all we can about the area.

Our New House Guests

This morning the boys and I went to the airport to pick up our next visitors: Charlie, Maud and Amelie Hays! Charlie is Darrick's brother, Maud is Charlie's wife and Amelie is their 8 month old daughter.

This is the first time we have met Amelie and I for one am heads over heels in love with my niece. I just can't get enough of her. She is sleeping now and I just want her to be awake. She is crawling and loves watching Micah and Jacob acting like goof balls. I am so happy to be an Auntie and to have an adorable little girl to love. We are going to have a wonderful week together!

After we picked them up from the airport we had lunch and then drove to Pali Lookout. It is super humid today and overcast so the view was not awesome but they still enjoyed it. Tonight we brought Subway to Darrick, he has duty, so we could eat dinner together.

Here are a few highlights since my last update:

The van is still having issues. It is still squealing really bad. Darrick changed the belt and the pulley and brought the alternator in to be checked but still it squeaks! And it is driving Darrick crazy and about every guy Darrick talks to about it. What is funny is that most guys will say to Darrick "Let me look at it" so they both stare under the hood and listen to the squeak and then they give their opinion.

Last night Micah had his first sleepover. We are on Fall Recess this week because we are in year round school. Micah's friend Jalen, who lives 2 doors down from us invited Micah to spend the night since there was no school today. I think it was harder for me then him. He did great and had fun-I can't get over how big he is!

Darrick's leave is over now and he has gone back to work as Chief. He is enjoying it but is still getting use to being in a new position.

My friend Sonya has still NOT had her baby! She went to the doctor today and everything is still fine. Her next doctor appt. is Wednesday and if nothing has happened by then they are planning to schedule her to be induced.

I love so much when family and friends visit-a piece of home here in Hawaii.