Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! Micah is wearing the Native American costume he made at school.

We had quite a fright early this morning. Micah woke us up at 2:30 am saying he couldn't breathe. He was wheezing really bad and had very labored breath. He was very scared and crying which made it even worse. Darrick took Micah to the ER at Tripler. Thankfully there was no one else there and they saw Micah right away. They said he was having an asthma attack and gave him a breathing treatment. Micah has never had asthma or any allergies. So we had to follow up with his doctor later this morning. She also confirmed it was asthma and gave us a ton of medicine. We have to see the doctor again in a week. We are not 100% sure if the diagnosis is accurate since it came out of no where so we just ask that you pray that God will reveal the truth to us. We are so worried about Micah. Just in case you don't remember April/May 2006 Micah was evaluated and diagnosed with Panic/Anxiety/Separation disorder. He has been seeing a specialist, taking some medication and with a lot of prayer support has made so much progress no one hardly knows he has it. But about 2 weeks he got the flu and threw up in class which was causing him to have panic/anxiety attacks for the first time at school. We have been working with his teacher and the school counselor and making some progress. So this asthma attack just adds to his worry because he is afraid he is going to have another one and not be able to breathe.

We also got some really really great news today. Since we were not moving to Washington we had decided that it would not work for us to go to California for Christmas. We were really disappointed because all my family is going to be home. Well we found out today that it is written in Darrick's orders that we get to travel to his home area, all 4 of us, for FREE-compliments of the Navy! Praise God! He works in such awesome ways and when we can't see a way, He finds a way! We can't wait to see everyone and eat some yummy California food!

Time to catch up again...

Darrick left on Monday to go out to sea for the week and Dave, Laura and Elijah left bright and early Tuesday morning to fly back to California so our house seemed pretty quiet with just me and the boys.

We had a pretty normal week. Darrick came home Friday and we were all happy to see him-especially the boys. Darrick had promised them that when he got back we could watch the movie "Cars" and then the boys could have a sleepover together. Micah and Jacob decided that they all wanted to sleep in the guestroom and when I peeked at them they were both cuddled up, one on each side, next to Darrick.

Saturday we took it easy. In the morning we went for a family bike ride on the bike path. We were all cruisin' along fine until we got to a little downhill section by the watercress and taro patches. Jacob veered off the path rolled off his bike and crashed at the bottom of a small hill by the taro field. Thankfully he only scratched his chin a little and cried because he said he was scared.

In the afternoon we cleaned out our storage room to get out all of our christmas stuff. We were quite surprised at the amount of gecko poop that was in there. I mean it was so much we had to sweep it out. We also encountered 2 giant cockraoches, yuck!

Darrick had duty today so the boys and I went to church but it was not a normal church service it was Hope Chapel West Oahu's Thanksgiving Luau. It was awesome and everything was FREE! First was church. I helped with the kids. We had a couple hundred kids from Pre-K to 6th grade. We started with a great kids singer named Tisha and then a Christian magician. The kids loved it. We had handed out quite a few tickets to our friends and neighbors but the only ones we saw there was our new neighbors Jeremy, Jennifer and Brayden. After church then the Luau started. We had traditional food: kalua pork, rice, chicken long rice, lomi lomi salmon and poi. They had bouncers for the kids, carnival rides and shave ice. They also had some musical guests: Kapena (http://www.kapena.com/), Keahiwai (http://www.keahiwai.com/) and Nathan Aweau (http://www.nathanaweau.org/). The boys and I relaxed, listened to good music and ate 3 shave ice each!

I better wrap this up, but one last story. As a result of the 3 shave ice Jacob especially had to go to the bathroom a lot. I made sure he went right before we left. One the way home I had to make a stop to sign Micah up to play AYSO soccer for the first time-the season starts in January. So we are in traffic, I'm trying to drive and Jacob blurts out "I have to pee!" "Right now?" I say and he says "It's coming out!" "Quick think" I say to myself. There is no where to pull over and I spot an empty waterbottle-perfect! I tell Micah to try and help him get his pants down while he is still in his seatbelt. I just tell them "Make sure your penis is in the bottle before you pee." We are finally coming to a redlight, I turn around just as Jacob starts peeing and his penis pops out of the bottle and he is just sitting there peeing like an out of control firehose. I am yelling "make it stop!" as it hits me and Micah. Finally it stops because he is out of pee and he just smiles and starts giggling. The lights turns green and we get to the registration place and the first words out of Micah's mouth are "Mom can I use the bottle too?" Life with boys...

Our Day

Today Micah and I went to school this morning and Dave and Laura watched Jacob. Elijah was able to get a good nap before we started our afternoon activities.

We picked up Micah from school and headed straight for the Goodwill to find Dave, Laura and Elijah some Aloha clothes. We found a few other good deals and then got back in the car to head to Wahiawa.

We went to Dole Plantation. We had yummy Dole whips and then rode the Pineapple Express. It was another great day with sun and a nice breeze. After the train ride we went to feed the Koi Fish-which the boys all loved. But all of the sudden Elijah kicked off his sandel and it landed in the pond. We had to get a man to fish it out with a net. It is always an adventure...see what we do tomorrow!

Today was a day off from school because of Election Day so we were able to go and have some fun! After breakfast and a nap for Elijah and Jenn, we made our way over to the Arizona Memorial. Our boat and show was going to be in an hour and a half so we looked around the museum and then had our picnic lunch by the water. It really was a beautiful day with a refreshing breeze.



At the Arizona Memorial





After the Arizona we had an awesome drive to Lanikai, and Elijah caught another little catnap. We all had such a good time. The water was really warm and we all got in and swam together. Dave and I spent some time snorkeling and getting cut on the coral!

Darrick had duty today, so we missed him, but we sure had fun!

Tonight Micah caught a baby gecko in my room so him and Dave took some time holding it before they set it free-in our house! I remember being so scared of geckoes when we first moved here and not being able to sleep because there was one in my room. But now the boys actually catch them outside and set them free in the house because they like them as pets. They are harmless and eat misquitos so it is fine with me!

And our guests are...

Well our newest guests arrived today: Dave (my brother), Laura and Elijah Gutierrez! They had a really good flight and arrived a little early. We greeted them with leis and big hugs and smiles.

From the airport we drove to Pali Lookout. The view was amazing even though it was pretty breezy. And there were a lot of bees. There has always been a signs warning of us bees but in the 2 years we have been here we have never seen a bee. Jacob got stung on his cheek.

While we were enjoying the beautiful view I was telling Laura how Japanese tourist love taking pictures of the boys and children who look "Western". As soon as I got done a group of Japanese students came over and wanted to take pictures with us and they went nuts over Elijah-they were squealing and trying to touch him.

This afternoon we relaxed and had a yummy dinner of BBQ chicken, rice-a-roni and fresh pineapple. Tonight the cousins took a bath together and are having fun getting to know each other again. Elijah likes to watch the boys and see what they are up to. Our adventures continue tomorrow...

Darrick's New Toy

Last week Darrick got a motorcycle. A guy from the ship was moving and couldn't take it with him so Darrick got a really good deal. It is a 2000 Suzuki Katana. He is now going to work on getting his Hawaii motorcycle license so he can ride it!

Smile...you're on Candid Camera

I have now come to the conclusion that I have to be on some kind of hidden camera show...it is the only way to explain how crazy my life has become!

Today started out as a normal day, we got up, had breakfast, got ready for the day and brought Jacob to Miss Jackie's, Micah to his class and then I made my way to the 5th grade classroom. About 45 minutes into Math class my cell phone rang and it was Jackie. I needed to come get Jacob becuase he was throwing up. So I left school, got Jacob, gave him a bath, and got him cozy on the couch with a bucket.

Around 1:00 the phone rings, "Mrs. Hays can you please come get Micah, he is in the Health Room. He just threw up in his classroom" Jacob was napping so Tonya kept an eye on him while I went to get Micah. We got home, I gave him a bath, and got him cozy on the couch with a bucket. They have both thrown up a few more times but hopfully it will pass quickly.

I think the name of the show I must be on is "How much can one person take?" and the theme must be they keep throwing crazy situations at you and see how much you can handle before you crack! But the great thing is that I am doing good and God is giving me the strength I need each day to handle the challenges that lay before me.

This morning the Lake Erie called to request Darrick to be the Chief on their ship. So we are just waiting to see what happens.

Huh?

Well today we had surprising news...the Navy told us that we are NOT moving to Washington. We are still pretty shocked. What it came down to was that the detailers do not want to pay to move us from Hawaii to Washington. So now they are either going to keep Darrick on the Hopper or transfer him to another ship stationed here-the USS Lake Erie.

When we got married the verse we chose as our verse was Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you a future and hope". We are just hanging onto that verse right now, when we are not sure if we are coming or going. Even though it seems like the Navy is in charge of our life, it is God who is in charge of ALL including the Navy. We know God has a plan for our family and we will listen when God tells us to go and stay when He tells us to stay. We'll keep you updated!

Images of our Halloween

Happy Halloween from the Hays Family!

Jenn: Tinkerbell, Darrick: Captain Hook, Jacob: Robin, Micah: The Human Torch

Goodie Bags Micah and I made for his class

Well I am back from my Weekend retreat.
On Saturday while I was gone Jenn and the boys went to a Halloween party and a going away party for the Shedd's.
The retreat was a good time of learning what a man of God looks like and what I need to do to be that man. I think something I struggle with is me trying to do good things for God rather than allowing God to do good things through me. Another thing is I sometimes get so mad at people when they do things they shouldn't do. The speaker said to remember they are lost and need Jesus. That will really help me to keep from getting angry.
On Saturday on the retreat we had free time so we played some basketball and went swimming. I did okay on the court but hurt my ankle again so it is pretty swollen tonight.

Today I got home in time to meet Jenn and the boys at Church and hear the message. When we got home we rested and Jenn actually slept. Then we went for a bike ride around the housing area. The weather was so nice today with a nice cool breeze. After our ride Jacob tried riding his bike without the training wheels. He actually did really good but we put the wheels back on because he needs a little more time. He still likes to look around when he rides and when he did that he would fall over.

The past few days I have been down and out with the flu. It hit me early morning Wednesday and of course, how it always goes, Darrick was leaving to go out to sea Wednesday thru Friday. I stayed home from work for 2 days and mostly in bed. But I am finally starting to feel better today and was able to go to work but took it easy.

Today after school was the Lehua Family Fun Fair. So the boys and I went and had a really great time. They had different games and a cake walk and yummy food like shave ice, nachos and hot dogs. Micah and I each won once on the Cake walk and Micah chose cookies and I chose brownies.

Darrick did come back tonight but later than expected so we did not get to spend anytime with him. Mike Ching from Bible Study picked him up soon after he got home and they rode together to HCWO's Men's Retreat. It is Friday-Sunday and even though we haven't seen him in days, I'm so happy that he can go.

Gold Bullet

It was so wonderful today when I started the van this morning and it was so quiet!!! What a blessing! We forgot to mention yesterday what the problem was. It was the tensioner (Don't ask me what or where that is). Darrick had changed the tensioner pulley but not the tensioner. So thanks to the mechanics at the Autoport for fixing our van. By the way the Gold bullet is what we call our van. The boys love Gold Bullet and think it is the fastest and coolest car on the road.

And we all seem to be adjusting to life without Moses. The boys did not mention him this morning before school so I did not either. And they didn't mention him in the afternoon. Only once in the evening they each asked me where he was but there were no tears. That was one of the hardest nights for me as a mom. I knew we were doing the right thing but it broke my heart to hear the boys cry like that. I had to lay in bed with Micah until he finally fell asleep. He kept saying the sadest things like "Will Moses forget me?" "Will they change his name?" "I love Moses"...

Hopefully the worst is over!

Bye Moses

Well today was a bit of a sad day. The family that adopted Moses picked him up. Everything was going good until it came time for the family to take him away, Micah started crying, the hardest cry we have seen from him in a long time. It was hard but we feel it is the best thing for Moses. We took a picture with the family so you could see who adopted him. The little girls were so excited to get Moses, we could tell they will give him plenty of love and attention. Besides the little girls they have another dog at home and a big yard for them to play in.

Also we have a huge praise. We got our van back today and it was nice and quiet. Not only was it quiet but it didn't cost even close to what we thought they would try to charge us and we got a screw taken out of one of the tires and the hole fixed so the van is ready for our next visitors.

Saturday

Well we finally decided that it is time to take the van in. The squealing is so bad, it is embarrassing. So we brought it to the Autoport on the Navy Base so hopefully they can figure out what is going on with it. But in the meantime that left us without a car so we rented a car. It is a Dodge Neon. We are really enjoying driving around in the car, and it is blue, which the boys like.

Then we had to go to Honolulu to pick up the papers that prove Moses is a pure breed Cairin Terrier. And here is another God thing. The Navy housing in Washington does not have fenced in backyards so we decided it would be best to not take Moses but we were not sure what to do. We wanted him to go to a good family, but how would we find one? Well last week Darrick was talking with some people on the ship and they were talking about pets and Darrick just threw it out there that we were looking for a home for Moses and one guy said he wants him. He has 3 kids who want a dog. So next week we will bring Moses to his new family. We are sad but we feel it is for the best.

Yesterday I got my haircut. It was just getting too long and I was starting to get headaches. So I got about 4 inches cut off and layers put back in it and the lady thinned it out. It feels so good.

We also got our first takers who are going to come visit us before we leave. They are coming the second week in November. We are so excited! Who are they? You'll just have to wait to see!

Letting God do His thing...

It never fails to amaze me how God works everything out for us in His time and not our own and also that He has such good things in store for us, better then what we think we want.

Once again, like I wrote before, I had our future all worked out. In the present moment I wanted San Diego so we could be 2 hours away from my family and because it was familiar to me. I wanted to send the boys the City Tree Christian School, where I use to teach when we lived there and I was going to try to get a job there. We knew living there was going to be expensive, but oh well, what could we do. Darrick and I have talked often about someday owning a home near the woods, we both love the outdoors and the forest. Darrick has also talked about wanting to live somewhere cheaper so we will be ok when he retires from the Navy. But those were our quiet desires for the future that we kept tucked away inside our hearts.

And then BAM out of nowhere God reveals His next step for our lives: Washington. God listened to our hearts and gave us what is best for us and not what I thought we needed. And today I had another comfirmation that this is the path God wants us on.

Today I talked to Jackie, who takes care of Jacob while I work, and told her that we are moving. She sat there a little amazed and said that her supervisors implemented some new rules for the providers that imposed on her family, like no home schooling your own children, etc... and she was considering quitting but was unsure what to do with finding another provider for Jacob. I told her we are leaving in December and that is the same time she was thinking of quitting! Can you even believe it? We love Jackie and the only reason we have Jacob there is because she and her family are Christians and that is the type of home we want Jacob in. But God is working it all out. I can't wait to see what He will do next!

Blessed

Tonight I am feeling blessed...not because I have a kitchen filled with dirty dishes but the events of the day.

Jacob woke up with an upset tummy today so he and I stayed home. He is feeling better tonight and his appetite is back.

So since I was home I did some laundry and while I fold clothes my mind wanders and I got an idea. For the past few nights I have been researching schools for Micah in Washington. I found an amazing Christian school that just seemed to have evrything we are looking for, it is called Nothshore Christian Academy. So my idea was that I needed to call them and see if they have any openings for kindergarten starting in January. The woman I talked to was the Admissions Director and she was great and very friendly. And she told me that she just got notice of a kindergarten opening in January! So we took it and she is reserving it for Micah Hays. God is so amazing and has everything so perfectly planned, it is almost hard to wrap your brain around. Here is the link to the school if you want to check it out: http://www.northshorechristianschools.org/

Then this afternoon I got a call from a girl named Linda. She is the sister of my friend Gloria Bracamonte and her and her husband, Josh, just arrived here on island yesterday because they just got stationed here. This is their first move and they were feeling pretty lost. So I went to pick them up to hang out with us.

The neighborhood was having another BBQ since we still had defrosted food left over from Sunday after the earthquake. So I invited Linda and her husband Josh to join us. I know I have said this many times before but I love our neighbors. We are so blessed to have them. We truly have become the dearest of friends and all our kids just act like one big happy family. We had such yummy food and Tonya made a yummy chocolate pudding pie (by the way Tonya, I already ate my piece, so good thing we split it between us).

Darrick is out to sea this week but will be back tomorrow, which is the last thing I feel so blessed about. Monday morning I woke up to find a note from Darrick on the counter in the kitchen. He was just thanking me for supporting him and loving him through all the Navy throws at us and to tell me that he loves me. It really made my day and makes me feel warm when I think about it. I love you too Darrick and would follow you anywhere-but I prefer somewhere close to family and in the USA!

We're okay!

Our life has been on full speed lately and it has been hard for us to find a moment to slow down.

We have a few items of really big news:

1. We survived the earthquake! Darrick had duty Saturday so the boys and I were getting up and waiting for Darrick to come home so we could go to church. And then the earth started shaking! It was strong and the biggest one I have ever felt. The entire island lost power! So everyone started to hang out outside. We borrowed a car to get to church because I was scheduled to Sunday school. There were people there, only a lot less then normal. Darrick was stuck on the ship. When we got home the neighborhood had an impromptu BBQ until about 4 pm when the power came back on. Thanks for the calls we got to make sure we were ok!

2. On Friday Darrick got a call from the higher up people in charge of Navy region west asking him if he would come to the USS Ingraham and be their Chief since they do not have one. Here is a little history. Our time in Hawaii is coming to an end September 2007 so this December 2006 it is time for us to pick our new orders. We were planning on San Diego. About 3 times Darrick mentioned to me "Have you thought about Washington?" "No of course not" I said, "we are going to San Diego!" Darrick couldn't believe it on Friday when they called and requested him in Everett, Washington! We feel really peaceful and sense God's leading but we were not planning on moving so quickly. This has all been verbal agreements so far and we are waiting for the paper orders. Darrick will leave the Hopper December 15, 2006 and report to the Ingraham January 15, 2007. So this holiday season we will be moving again! So if anyone wants to visit who has not, this is your LAST chance! We also found out today that Darrick will be leaving for another CARAT cruise (which he just returned from) around May 2007. So we are busy researching housing and where we can send Micah for school and learn all we can about the area.

Our New House Guests

This morning the boys and I went to the airport to pick up our next visitors: Charlie, Maud and Amelie Hays! Charlie is Darrick's brother, Maud is Charlie's wife and Amelie is their 8 month old daughter.

This is the first time we have met Amelie and I for one am heads over heels in love with my niece. I just can't get enough of her. She is sleeping now and I just want her to be awake. She is crawling and loves watching Micah and Jacob acting like goof balls. I am so happy to be an Auntie and to have an adorable little girl to love. We are going to have a wonderful week together!

After we picked them up from the airport we had lunch and then drove to Pali Lookout. It is super humid today and overcast so the view was not awesome but they still enjoyed it. Tonight we brought Subway to Darrick, he has duty, so we could eat dinner together.

Here are a few highlights since my last update:

The van is still having issues. It is still squealing really bad. Darrick changed the belt and the pulley and brought the alternator in to be checked but still it squeaks! And it is driving Darrick crazy and about every guy Darrick talks to about it. What is funny is that most guys will say to Darrick "Let me look at it" so they both stare under the hood and listen to the squeak and then they give their opinion.

Last night Micah had his first sleepover. We are on Fall Recess this week because we are in year round school. Micah's friend Jalen, who lives 2 doors down from us invited Micah to spend the night since there was no school today. I think it was harder for me then him. He did great and had fun-I can't get over how big he is!

Darrick's leave is over now and he has gone back to work as Chief. He is enjoying it but is still getting use to being in a new position.

My friend Sonya has still NOT had her baby! She went to the doctor today and everything is still fine. Her next doctor appt. is Wednesday and if nothing has happened by then they are planning to schedule her to be induced.

I love so much when family and friends visit-a piece of home here in Hawaii.